Human beings are bound by certain
characteristics. These characteristics in most of the cases are defined by the
habits that the people used to inherit. However, until people are single it
does not put an effect on the life though after getting married it can be turn
to an issue of fighting between the couples. A practicing matrimonial lawyer in Kolkata mentioned in most of divorce
cases it has been seen that some of the habits rather bad habits are the prime
reason behind the broken marriages. It is true that habits are something, which
is very difficult to change, still by following certain tricks and advises one
can get out of these situations. Nevertheless, it is more important that to
know the habits that are ruining the marriages.
One
of the biggest bad habits behind several broken marriages is the addictions to
something. There can be addictions to cigarette, alcohol, drugs etc. however,
these certain additions not only harm the people physically but also there are
certain issues that harms the social life of the people. Such addictions are
social media, phone call etc. Gambling and Lottery are some of the addictions
that used to harm economically also. On contrary, it has been seen that there
are number of who are having bad habits such as gossiping, talking about
others, shop lifting etc, which embarrasses their counter part in a serious
way. Thus, one must try to change such habits, in case they are failed to solve
such issues they can talk with partners about being going for a counselling.
When
a couple is getting into a relation, it becomes mandatory that they show love
to each other. They must also give priority to each other need than of others.
In several cases, it has been found that couple used to argue about the
priority of the life. A common difference that used be happen between the
couples is because of their adjustments with parents. It has to be understood
by both that parents have their own place and their counter parts are having
own place. They must give each other proper attention and they must think of
their parents too. It is always advisable that in case of any argument one must
take the side of the truth. Becoming an emotional or judgmental person will
not going to help anyone for sure.
In
order to have a successful relationship one must know this that they have to
share a common goal or dream at least about the decisions. If the decisions of
the couple are not aligned properly, it becomes difficult to have a successful
marriage. Instead of focusing their own goals, it is much important that they
focus on each other’ goals at the end it will increase the bond between the
couple. Neglecting each other will decrease the affection, tenderness and
connection that they used to share among themselves. Rather, it creates more
distance among the couple, which ultimately becomes prime reason of the
divorce.
Modern
corporate world is target oriented and thus working people always used to feel the
pressure of work. It sometimes influences the physical life too. People used to
feel tired and reluctant to do sex. Physical touch is a real important issue in
case of a happy conjugal life. Touching each other, feeling each other is also
important beside mental attachment. Therefore, many couples used to file
divorce due to the reason of failed sexual attachments. Having sex with the
wife is not something unnatural but to not have it is unnatural. This can also
increase the chance of the adultery. With the proper physical relation, the
exchange of hormones used be happen which ultimately increase the love between
the people.
Apart
from these issues, there are people who used keep secrets from their counter
parts. It can be anything starting from a little to something big. Hiding big
purchase often creates issues between the couples. However, it is also true
that in every middle class family there is certain budget they used to keep for
something. In such cases, an extra buying may create problem in the budget or
even the budget plan may face issues. However, even if such incident used to
happen, one must not create a fuss and should try to resolve it by discussion.
Else, it may create a huge conflict between the couples.
Therefore,
these are some of the bad habits that people usually used to have which largely
affect their child. It is important that people must also avoid the habits of
adultery and lie once they are married or in a committed relationship. This will
make the bond among the couples more strong and they can live a more prosperous
life.
